I saw a miracle today. David was so upset with his dad for taking away his Ipad for discipline that he purposely didn't wear a tie to church so he did not have to pass the sacrament. When his Young Men's President offered him a tie so he could pass the sacrament he refused to take it. It was a very frustrating moment for all of us. Then during Relief Society they came to get me because they were setting David apart. I was confused because he already had the priesthood so I could not think of what they would be setting him apart for. When I got there it turns out that he had been called by the Lord to be the President of the Deacons Quorum. He was pleased you could tell.
The Senior missionaries |
A very blurry picture of Nathan and Larry, Antuars, and Williams |
Greers, Sister and President Slaughter, Clarks, and Zirkles |
The kids then got out the life game and started to play that. They have really enjoyed the Life zapped version that Maren and Landon got them for Christmas. I worked for awhile on last weeks blog. Larry went in his room to listen to music videos on his phone and Nathan just worked on something on his Ipad. They played for a long time before they started to get upset with each other but they worked it out and then played some more and finally ended the game.
Garffs, Adairs, and D. Willims |
President and Sister Slaughter with Sister Greer in background |
Antuars and M. Willims |
Isaac running in to the finish line in his box car. |
Isaac with his prize |
Tuesday was a normal day. We went to office, worked, went to lunch with Nathan, went back to the office, worked and went home for dinner. Nathan decided somewhere in the week that he wanted to eat more vegetarian so we are learning to deal with that.
Wednesday we went to pick up Isaac and Samuel and Maggie at their schools. Then we went to Subway to eat before Isaac had a box car race at Cub Scout pack meeting. It was so good to have the kids for a few minutes. But we had to hurry and Isaac just barely got there in time to race. I was supposed to be in the Family History Center in case someone came but Larry took the key and went there and I was Isaac's pit crew. The had to race three laps. One the first stop at the pit we had to wring out a cloth and wash their face with that cloth. The second time around we had to get them a small glass of punch to drink and they could not take off until they had drank it. The third pit stop They had to take off their shoes and then pit crew had to get them a donut which they had to eat and then get back in the race. Isaac was behind but on the last pit stop his shoes came off so easy that he easily got finished sooner and then he passes one person on the race and came in second. I was so proud of him! He got to choose from several prizes and he chose a whoopy cushion. Sammy thought that was great and kept asking me to sit down on it so he could make it work and laugh at me.
We didn't have anyone show up at the Family History Center that night as well. We were able to go home early then so we got to bed at a good time.
Thursday we went to pick up the kids and we got there early so we decided to help Sara and pick up the kids for her at the School as we drove by. She did not like that. Thought it was encroaching on her time and felt like Nathan planned it. Which was not true. We ended up taking the kids to their house and waiting for a while so that she could see the kids. She still let them go early about a quarter to 6:00 p.m.
The kids had mentioned the night before that they missed cleaning the church and then the Bishop got on Facebook and announced that it was a church cleaning on Thursday night at 7:00 p.m. so we decided rather than take the kids to Bingo night we would take them to IHOP for dinner and then to clean the church. They loved it!!!
Friday night we had the kids at about 6:00 p.m. Larry and I got off of work at the office about 4:00 p.m. and went grocery shopping so we would have some food for them as we had let the cupboards get a little bare. We bought a pizza for that night and the kids enjoyed that with some sodas that they had then Nathan worked with Isaac on his bear requirements while the rest of the kids watched a movie or played on their IPads.
Isaac and Sammy were really excited because Nathan bought Sammy a refurbished IPad and gave Isaac his old IPad. That way all the boys have an IPad to play on. Sammy was pretty excited about that but then he didn't like the fact that it had to stay at our house.
Saturday we got up at about 7:00 a.m. That gave us time to do all the rituals before we had to take Maggie to dance. Nathan insisted that they all come but he would not let them take their IPads. He wanted to show David a sex education movie while we were waiting by going someplace private. David refused to go with him and got very belligerent and disrespectful so Nathan told him if he could not do what he was asked to do he would not have electronics all weekend. David just got worse so he sealed his fate. I had Nathan's phone to take videos for him of Maggie's dancing so I did not get any pictures on my phone. She is doing very well considering that she just started and many of the others started in September.
After dance we went home and fixed lunch for everyone. We had planned to have a picnic on the patio of the pool where they have barbeque grills but it was raining so hard that it made it impossible to do that. Isaac needed to pass off making food for a camp out. We taught him how to make pigs in a blanket that he could have put on a stick but we cooked them in the oven. Then we tried to teach them how to roast marshmallows over a burner on the stove but when one of the marshmallow's dropped and started to burn it set off the fire alarm so we decided that was not a good idea. I knew that we could cook them in the microwave so after a little experimentation we made the rest in the microwave and made s'mores to go with the pigs in the blanket. We had bought sodas so they had those and we had an indoor picnic. It was fun considering the circumstances. I think that Isaac really enjoyed cooking the marshmallows over the open burner because he tried it again several times and made himself three s'mores.
After that we had a friend of Nathan's from the ward, Thomas Myers, that came and stayed with him from 2:30 p.m. til 6:00 p.m. so we could go to a missionary meeting with Elder Russell Nelson. The only reason that Nathan needed someone to be there was because the kids were there and the divorce decree says that he cannot be alone with the children.
We left and went to the meeting. We had to be there at 3:00 p.m. so that we would be ready if Elder Nelson came early and that happened this time. Even thought the meeting was supposed to start at 3:30 p.m. he arrived at 3:15 p.m. He asked to shake the hand of every missionary there and so we all were able to shake his hand. He thanked Larry and I for our service and stopped to talk for a few seconds to each senior couple. It was a fun experience. It helped me to understand a little more fully how the Savior could have let everyone at the temple feel the prints in his hand when he came to the Americas.
Sister Slaughter was the first speaker. She talked about the fact that we need to give a 110% on our mission. She gave an example of a time on her mission when she had to give 110 % to learn the Mandarin Chinese language. She always has a good spirit with her when she speaks and I know that she was a great missionary.
After President Slaughter spoke. He mentioned that when King Benjamin had spoke to his people that they immediately felt joy in the atonement as recorded in the Book of Mormon. He told us that we would find joy from Elder Nelson's talk. He mentioned that the talk that Elder Nelson gave to the missionaries when he was on his mission as a young man changed his life. He told of how he had taken one thing from that talk that was the thing that he measured what he was going to do when he was making decisions for the rest of his life and he is still using it today. He challenged us to do everything that we could to align our lives with Apostolic conversation. He asked, "Do you believe in a way that will change your life and your whole mind.?"
Elder Nelson then had the Stake President of the San Antonio Texas North Stake, President Spendlove, to speak to us. He was there because we were meeting in his building. He asked? What do I expect of my Bishops? He quoted D & C 128:11 "Now the great and grand secret of the whole matter, and the summum bonum of the whole subject that is lying before us, consists in obtaining the powers of the Holy Priesthood. For him to whom these keys are given there is no difficulty in obtaining a knowledge of facts in relation to the salvation of the children of men, both as well for the dead as for the living." He stated that our Bishops have no difficulty tapping into what needs to occur in their area. Missionaries should be in ward counsels. They can learn there what needs to be done in the ward. He said that he was going to ask his Bishops to work the missionaries hard. We need to work hard because mission is such a short time in our lives.
It is interesting to note here, we learned later that President Spendlove was just called to be the mission president for one of the Salt Lake City missions.
The next speaker was Elder Wright of the 6th quorum of Seventy. He told the missionaries that they are so blessed to have President and Sister Slaughter for their leaders. He said that it is so important to come close to the Lord on your mission. The Lord looketh on the heart. He quoted from the 10th Chapter of Alma verse 6 in describing Amulek, " Nevertheless, I did harden my heart, for I was called many times and I would not hear; therefore I knew concerning these things, yet I would not know; therefore I went on rebelling against God, in the wickedness of my heart, even until the fourth day of this seventh month, which is in the tenth year of the reign of the judges." He said that we need to decide if we will respond when called. He then mentioned that his father and he often rode horses and one time he put him on a horse called Cebu. But Cebu would not be broken and quickly bucked him off and he was not able to do his work. How does this apply to your service? It is so important to be converted to turn our hearts to the Lord and be broken. You cannot inherit the Kingdom of God with out the sacrifice of a broken heart and a contrite spirit. Mosiah 27:10 tells of Alma and the sons of Mosiah who had been taught the gospel but did not receive the call, "And now it came to pass that while he was going about to destroy the church of God, for he did go about secretly with the sons of Mosiah seeking to destroy the church, and to lead astray the people of the Lord, contrary to the commandments of God, or even the king"—Faith cometh by hearing the word. Alma and the sons of Mosiah heard the word of God from the angel and were converted and turned their hearts to the Lord. They became marvelous missionaries for the Lord. When Alma was thown out of Ammonihah the same angel that had spoke to him earlier met him and told him to rejoice. He might of thought what do I have to rejoice about. The angel told him that he had been faithful in keeping the commandments of God since the day that he had first delivered them unto him. Alma returned to Ammonihah and found Amulek who had been commanded by an angel to help him and this time he followed the command. Amulek took him in and fed him and Alma blessed his family. Finally he went with Alma to preach and does a marvelous job because he is converted. His family rejected the gospel but he is able to be helped by Alma when he was rejected by the people for Alma took him into his home and helped him and strengthened him in the Lord.
The last thing he mentioned was some advice his brother gave him. No one cares what you did in High School. He said that many of us have accomplished many things in High School but right now no one cares what you did and you need to work with your companion to be obedient.
The next speaker was Elder Foster of the First Quorum of the Seventy. He bore testimony of the calling of Elder Nelson. He mentioned that he was also on a mission with Elder Williams that we work in the office with in the Texas South Mission about 45 years ago.
On his mission he had an experience where he met a Baptist Minister who was working in his town. One of the people that he worked with was contacted by the minister and was having a hard time choosing which way to go. They asked the minister if the people would be lost if they did not hear him preach. His reply was yes. The investigator told them that they knew that the the church was true because we want to save all people.
He declared that this is your day, this is your time. You are enough. He quoted D & C 31 where the Lord tells Thomas Marsh, blessed are you because of your faith in my work. He goes on to say, "Lift up your heart and rejoice, for the hour of your mission is come; and your tongue shall be loosed, and you shall declare glad tidings of great joy unto this generation. You shall declare
the things which have been revealed to my servant, Joseph Smith, Jun.
You shall begin to preach from this time forth, yea, to reap in the
field which is white already to be burned. Therefore, thrust in your sickle with all your soul, and your sins are forgiven you, and you shall be laden with sheaves upon your back, for the laborer is worthy of his hire. Wherefore, your family shall live. Behold, verily I say unto you, go from them only for a little time, and declare my word, and I will prepare a place for them."
He then said, Begin with the end in mind. Revile not against your companion. It is the same work on both sides of the veil. Your job is to help them see and be converted.
After this it was time for Elder Nelson to speak to us. He began by telling the missionaries thank you for being worthy to serve. He told them that they chose the best missionaries to serve in the United States. He admonished those who speak English to teach it to their companions. He said that President Hinckley demanded excellence in his own speech and he was always polishing our documents.
He then decided to tell us a little about the way things are organized in Priesthood. There are 8 quorums of the Seventy. Quorums 1-2 are general authorities that help the Apostles and assignments throughout the world as designated in Section 107 of the D&C. Quorums 3-8 are area authorities and are responsible for a certain area. Elder Foster is a general authority because he is in the 2nd quorum. Elder Wright is an area authority because he is over the area including San Antonio. He is in the 6th Quorum of Seventy. The Stake Presidents hold the keys for missionary work in their stake, even over the full time missionaries. Missionaries need to be a full purpose missionary. That means that they are able to do several things. The Mission President is in charge of assignments that are given to the missionaries.
He told the missionaries that they needed to make their companionship work. On your mission is where you learn to get along in marriage. Follow your mission presidents example and look for someone who loves the Lord. If they love the Lord first they have a bigger capacity to love you.
He then asked for questions. The first Question was: How can you be patient with change but not tolerate sin?
Change is what you pray for. We are to call all people to repentance! Change is a commandment of the Lord; change your attitude, change your mind and several other things. We encourage change. We are born totally selfish and need to work to being selfless. Change we pray for and we work for. We should not tolerate sin but we should love the sinner. Don't waste time doing what you did in the past. You are of the lineage of responsibility and we need to change and overcome our sin. He quoted from Abraham 3: 23-24 "And
God saw these souls that they were good, and he stood in the midst of
them, and he said: These I will make my rulers; for he stood among those
that were spirits, and he saw that they were good; and he said unto me:
Abraham, thou art one of them; thou wast chosen before thou wast born. And there stood one
among them that was like unto God, and he said unto those who were with
him: We will go down, for there is space there, and we will take of
these materials, and we will make an earth whereon these may dwell;" He pointed out that we were among those noble and great ones that were called to be the rulers because we were good and we have a responsibility to become the kind of person that the Lord can use.
Question 2 : How do you know when it is adversity or if you need to change?
Why would Heavenly Father allow Satan to be part of things. Because we have the chance to change from Heavenly Father. That is why we are teaching that opposites are needed. He quoted from D&C 101:3-4 "Yet I will own them, and they shall be mine in that day when I shall come to make up my jewel. Therefore, they must needs be chastened and tried, even as Abraham, who was commanded to offer up his only son." He also mention the story of Gideon in the Bible where the Lord had him pare his army down to 300 to show him that the Lord could fight his battles for him. This is a pattern that the Lord uses. He wants us to see that with his help we can accomplish anything. There are many examples in the scriptures: Sarah having a baby at 90, Mary having a virgin birth. Why does he do that? To teach us that if we will do our best all things are possible. In Exodus 3:11 it says, "And Moses said unto God, Who am I, that I should go unto Pharaoh, and that I should bring forth the children of Israel out of Egypt?" Often we say "Who am I?" Part of the process of growth is to do the things that we think we cannot do with God's help. You are among the noble and great ones. Even before you were born your received your first lessons and prepared to come forth to the earth. Everyone knows their family. You need to be prepared to help them with the Family History Consultants. Their ancestors are praying for you to meet their family and convert them so that they can get their work done.
This pattern of using the unlikely is one the Lord uses to accomplish his purposes. When Ezra Taft Benson was called as President I was assigned at the first meeting to open the countries of Eastern Europe that were behind the iron curtain. At that time it seemed like an impossible and overwhelming task. But by praying and working with the Lord I was able to accomplish that. You need to know how extraordinary you are. Pay attention to your patriarchal blessing to see what the Lord has promised you.
When your leader see your communication will they have a smiley face or a frowny face? When you see something that is our of order instead simply criticizing have a recommendation to make. Learn from how he responds.
We are thankful for you. This is the greatest organization of all the world. I bless you that you will feast on the word that you will shine like a beacon on a hill and that you will continue to preach the gospel after your missions.
Obviously I do not know shorthand so there is much that is left out. Also I felt that the spirit was bearing witness to me of many things that cannot be written. For the first time I understood what it means when they say in the scripture that words cannot be written to describe the feelings that we felt. I hope that writing out what I did take notes on will help someone to understand his words and change their life for better. I know that he is a prophet of God. He is sharp as a tack at 90 years old. Much of what he said was much more complicated that what is indicated here. It was a wonderful experience for me and I was so grateful to have the opportunity to listen at his feet.