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Nathan and Marcy in Galvaston going | swimming |
Today was a normal Sunday in most instances. Nathan got up at 6:00 a.m. as usual. Larry and I arose at 7:00 a.m. after reading scriptures and saying prayers we got in the shower. Nathan got in just before us. The kids started getting up while we were in the shower. Nathan has the kids help him dress on the weekends when they are here even though he can dress himself. I guess because he wants them to have an opportunity to serve someone and to understand what he is going through.
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David taken by Issac in car |
We have breakfast together. Larry had bought them bacon for breakfast yesterday so that was a hit. He had also bought doughnuts on Saturday and we had some left so we had doughnuts and bacon for breakfast with chocolate milk. Some weekends it is just cereal. I have given up trying to be nutritious.
Then we start to get ready for church. Normally I have to find the clothes for at least two of the kids even though there are only two places they could be. Maggie doesn't like to have her hair combed by me so I let her brush it and if she wants a pony tail then I try to put that in without brushing which is tricky. By the time we get everyone ready to go it is often past time to be at church but today we were lucky and made it early.
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Isaac love taking pictures of himself |
We didn't take any electronics in the car and the kids were moaning about not having anything to do. Our trip to church is about 20-25 minutes from our apartment. I suggested that we play the alphabet game where you find the alphabet on the signs and license plates. They said that they had never played it before so we tried it and they loved it. It was the best ride we have had to church in a long time and they wanted to play it on the way back.
It was Ward Conference today so all the Stake leaders were there to meet with us. The Bishop talked about enduring hardships and the Stake President talked about how to increase our love for and help to the inactive people in the ward and strengthen our weaknesses in doing so. I didn't get to hear all of it because Maggie had to go to the restroom. I was also frustrated because they were on one today. Maggie felt like she had to talk to Isaac and Isaac would talk back to her. Then after David got there from passing the sacrament he talked to Isaac and played games on paper with him and after asking them about 20 times to be quiet I was very discouraged. I took things to write on and Friends and New Era's to read but they just could not be quiet. I feel like I am making the matter worse by reminding them but I don't know what to do. Any ideas would be welcome.
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Maggie opening the ramp for her Daddy |
On a brighter note Sammy sat on the stand with the Bishopric because he just got baptized and he was quiet the whole meeting sitting by Jason Christensen who gave him something to draw with. So at least I could praise
him when we were driving home.
We do not have Sunday dinners anymore. We have food the kids like and we fix them what they want cafeteria style. Isaac had a peanut butter sandwich and chocolate milk, David had two hot dogs and chocolate milk. Maggie and Sammy had popcorn and Chocolate milk. Later they had smores for dessert. We also had watermelon in an attempt to get some fruits in the meal.
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Maggie so proud of herself |
We usually do some kind of activity after lunch. Today Nathan asked the kids to color on the white socs, the VA gave him, some kind of design so they would not be white and boring. They did a pretty good job of making them the same and coming up with creative designs. Then David devised a way for the kids to play marbles and saved the day when they were getting restless. The only calamity in that was Sammy got out first and he cries like he has been mortally hurt when something like that happens. After that Nathan put on the movie Twenty Thousand Leagues Under The Sea" and they started to watch that. Larry and I went into our bedroom and took a nap at that point.
I woke up to Maggie tapping me and quietly asking me to make her some hot chocolate milk. She had to tap for quite a long time. I finally got up and made her some milk and then she wanted a s'more. I asked if others wanted one and Sammy and David wanted one. So I made them one and then Maggie wanted another. About this time I noticed it was 5:25 p.m. and we were supposed to have the kids home by 6:00 p.m. So we all got up and scrambled to get ready, but the kids were late. I guess we will have to set a timer. Sara was good about it though.
This week was a busy week with Nathan. Luckily it was not so busy at the Mission Office.
Monday we went to Weight Watchers and it was not a good week. We both gained some weight. We went to the Grocery Store and got some 0 point foods to have at the office so we could be better. Then we went to the office.
Sister Williams was gone all this week tending her grandkids in Houston as her daughter and husband are moving to Vermont and they had to go look for a house. Luckily it has been very quiet. Part of that is because Sister Williams is so bubbly and talkative and the other reason is because it was Zone Conferences and we did not have to go but the Assistants and Leaders were there so we did not get as many phone calls. I worked most of the week trying to get caught up on Baptism and Confirmation Records and the Referrals. A lot of the referrals that I have to get in are the ones that have bad addresses that I have to call to get their address and that can be an interesting experience sometimes.
Larry is working on getting old cars ready to be sold. He has 8 right now that he needs to get ready for transport. He also had an accident in Leon Valley that was pretty bad. No one was hurt bad but the car was totaled. Then later in the week he had a car towed for supposedly parking in the wrong place. He was really worried that he was going to have to go to Austin to get the car but this time they were not so picky as the last time and they took the paperwork the Elders had.
Monday I went home about 2:00 p.m. and got Nathan some lunch and then we went to take Issac to get a military ID as he needed it now he is 10 to get to the doctors on base. We picked up him and Sammy about 3:00 p.m. from school and then went to Fort Sam. Nathan had an appointment so it did not take long to get the ID. Then we went to the PX and got him a wallet and a wallet with a hook for his ID so he would not loose it. While we were there Nathan decided to buy them some summer clothes for the apartment. Then we went to eat at the food court in the PX and had a relaxing dinner with just the two boys. They had Pizza and I had a salad. We looked around some more and then we drove the boys home. By now it was about 6:30 p.m. but Sara was not home because of play practices she was having this week and so we waited for a few minutes and Kenneth came home and so we were able to drop the kids off. I was surprised that Kenneth was there during the week. Larry was surprised that we were so late when we got home. I should have called or texted him.
Tuesday I went to the office in the morning and then I had to leave about 11:30 a.m to go and get Nathan to take him to an apartment walk through. He was wanting to make sure all the things that he noticed on the first walk through had been completed. He also had Ken Jackson and Teresa Johnson from the ward there as backup in case he got upset. When I got home he did not want to eat lunch then so we left and got there about 12:30 p.m. He called the others and had them meet him early so he could explain what he wanted them there for. The walk through went well. They had done a lot of work to get the paint job improved and things cleaned up that had not been done before. Teresa and Ken were able to help him see this and so there were only a few things that still needed to be done.
After the apartment walk through we went to Chick-fil-A for lunch at about 3:00 p.m. Then I took Nathan home and I went to the office for about an hour.
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The necklace Maren gave me went perfect with this dress |
The third Tuesday is our ward temple night. We had dinner and then got ready to go. It was raining so it was a wet night. Nathan had to wash the wheels on his wheelchair before he could go in. We went to the 8:00 p.m. session so it was late getting out. By the time we got to bed it was 11:30 p.m. so I set our alarm for 7:00 a.m. instead of 6:00.
Wednesday we worked at the office during the day. Then we had to go and get the boys for Scouts. Sammy being baptized is now old enough to be a Cub Scout. Sara was doing play practice so she wanted us to get David and the little boys and she had Kenneth get Maggie. We left the office at 3:30 p.m as it takes so long to get anywhere that time of day but the traffic was not bad and so we had time to eat at 5:00 p.m. Nathan asked the kids where they wanted to eat and he didn't want to go where they suggested so we ended up going to Bill Miller BBQ. It is okay but I do not like their lean brisket and for some reason I decided to get that instead of a salad. I was so disappointed when I saw that Larry had a salad and a BBQ chicken quarter. I will be smarter next time. The kids all got Chicken tenders. But we had a good dinner and still made it to the scouts on time.
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The scarf Maren gave me |
Isaac and Sammy have their Scouts at 6:30 p.m. David has mutual at 7:00 p.m. and Nathan had a meeting with the Bishop about Cub Scouts at 8:00 p.m. so it was 9:00 p.m. before we left. Larry and I did not have anyone come in until the very end about 8:30 p.m at the Family History Center so it was a frustrating night for us. We finally got the boys home at 9:25 p.m. We got to bed at 11 something again which is late for us.
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The Purse Maren gave me |
Wednesday I also got a package from Maren with a scarf, purse, necklace and earrings and some perfume for me and after shave for Larry. There was also some small spoons that Landon had got for me in Dubie and Portugal because he knew that I collect the small spoons. It was fun to get it and know that she was thinking of me. She is trying to clean out her home before they move next month.
Thursday was the day that I was able to work the longest and I actually got caught up on things that day. After I went to feed Nathan he wanted to go and get some things for the Pinewood Derby cars at Hobby Lobby. We did that and then Nathan went with me to the office for a while. We left at about 4:30 p.m. to pick up the kids for our visitation night but didn't get to the house until 6:00 p.m. We took the kids to Chick-fil-A for dinner because it is right across from Nathan's apartment that he just rented for he and Marcy. Then we went over to his apartment to work on Maggie's car but Nathan decided that we could not do that without more tools so we went on a tour of the Apartments amentities: the pool, the fitness center, the dog park, the basketball court. The kids were excited about all of it. By the time we got back it was time to take them home but Nathan ran into a person who wanted to know where he got his van so he talked to him some and we were late again.
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The kids walking back to the apartment after the tour |
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Nathan and Sammy at Papa Dantes |
Sara asked us if we could get all the kids for her on Friday and get them early. She said that Kenneth could meet us with the little kids at Randolph Air Force Base where David goes to school if we could get David. Again we had to leave early to get there at 4:15 p.m. and we made it at 4:25 p.m. and then still had to go pick up David. We took the kids out to Papa Dantes a local Italian restaurant in Converse for dinner and then they went home to work on the Pinewood Derby car for the High Priest/ Elders race that was on Saturday.
Nathan and Larry worked together to get Maggie's car finished. They finished it about 9:30 p.m. so that wasn't too bad. Nathan talked about when he used to make the cars before he had his stroke and it sounded like he put a lot of extra effort into them to make them winning cars. He said that he would carve out most of the wood so it was just a shell so that he could get the weight exactly where he wanted it. He also said that he would be up late many times finishing the car. He was so excited about them that he actually got upset with Sammy when he just wanted to play with the car after he got it done. I think his kids actually had more fun making these cars as he has brought down his expectations to something the kids can do now.
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Sammy, Isaac and David at Papa Dantes |
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Maggie and I trying to take a selfie |
Saturday morning Nathan and I took Maggie to dance while Larry stayed home and did laundry and worked on trying to patch the mattress that we bought and Maggie put a hole in it the next day. But nothing seems to be working. The boys loved this as they could play on their Ipads the whole time and not get dressed early.
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The kids working so hard on the Pinewood Derby Cars |
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Nathan and Larry working on Pinewood Derby Cars |
We came home and ate lunch and Larry and I actually took a nap while Nathan and the kids bonded. Then we left about 4:15 p.m. for the Pinewood Derby. We were one of the first ones there. We have found for family parties that Woodlake Ward really has Mormon Standard Time.
I pitched in and helped Sister Alonzo set up the serving table while Nathan and Larry checked in "Elder Presser and Maggie's Car" and the kids found friends to play with. Dinner was supposed to start at 5:00 p.m. but it finally started about 5:40 p.m. but it was a good Hot Dog dinner with salad. The kids were excited because someone brought tubs of cotton candy for a volunteer treat so they grabbed that right up.
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Punching the holes for the wheels |
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The second car from the left is Maggies and Grandpa's |
The race started a little after 6:00 p.m. They raced an Elder against a High Priest. Larry raced about third and Maggie was elated that they won. Then they raced again and beat Erick Alonzo's car. Maggie was thrilled. But when they raced for one of the race offs they lost so they took 6th place. Maggie was thrilled because they got a little tiny trophy with a 6 on it. She didn't quite understand who she was racing though because she told me that, "I beat your man wife tonight Grandma" and she kept telling me that she had beat Grandpa even after I explained that a man wife was a husband.
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Getting the track set up |
It was a fun night and I think that Nathan and Larry felt good that they had at least placed despite the drop in requirements for a good car. I felt good because I only had one piece of cheesecake from the desserts.